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smileysabre
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United Kingdom
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 Posted - 2005/06/15 : 16:30:57
what you like with a pen? i've lost some good friends in recent years and when i get down about one of them i do something creative, make a tune, write a lyric, draw a picture and dedicate it to them. You are often your most creative when emotional and it's nice to have something at the end of your strife that you can keep and will always be special to you as it will remind you of your dad or whoever.
write a poem about your dad... if you need a start write down twenty words associated with him and start there...
Keep your head up and use him as a motivating factor in your life.... that's my advice.
Peace.
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kathryn
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United Kingdom
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 Posted - 2005/06/15 : 16:57:26
thanks everyone for ur suggestions i feel ok now!
At least my dad's in the 'Heavens above'
I usually do listen to hardcore when am down, so cheers to u all anyway.
kmcginty
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MaTTyK
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 2005/06/15 : 17:44:06
i lost my dad nearly 13 years ago, n its not healed properly, the thing i find that helps is to hang out all day wid my mates n listen to sum choons
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kathryn
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Posted - 2005/06/16 : 11:51:46
quote:
Originally posted by MaTTyK:
i lost my dad nearly 13 years ago, n its not healed properly, the thing i find that helps is to hang out all day wid my mates n listen to sum choons
wish i had mates to hang out with! anyway my three kids keep me busy.
kmcginty
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Cotts
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Australia
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Posted - 2005/06/16 : 12:10:00
there is a hardcore song for every mood :)
in your case i would listen to scott brown - fly with you, nice lyrics in that one. 
once when i was angry about something cranked up
scott brown - stomp, in my car. Got a speeding ticket lol.
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kathryn
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Posted - 2005/06/16 : 12:33:32
Thanx everyone!
kmcginty
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Hardcore4eva
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Posted - 2005/06/16 : 12:55:30
your welcome! :)
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tunnelrush
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United States
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Posted - 2005/06/16 : 22:48:57
"How do u get over somethin like that as time hasn't healed 4 me?" -quote
actually,you dont get over it. you remember the good times, and you just tell yourself that they ARE in a better place now. Im sorry for your loss.
Onna personal note, since i play alot of sports i like to 'dedicate' my efforts for that person...win lose or draw i always walk away with great pride that for one day i gave a 120% for a lost freind/family member. although sports might not EXACTLY be the answer...goin out and doin something you love and dedicating your effort to them always helps my pain.
it doenst work for some people..just thought id throw it out there.
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